Destined for greatness?

What is life?
Is everything in clear cut, should we believe in destiny and fate?
Are there such things as soul mates and kismet really?
Do we all have a magical moment that time and other memories doesn’t erase?
Do we make certain decisions, or mistakes in life that change our destiny and if so, is there something we can do to change them?
Are our lives so clear cut that we have to live them as expected?
Is there any pride left when people love those they shouldn’t?
Is there a connection so deep that it cannot be ignored?
How do we explain that instant click when two souls meet and know that something is meant to take place, or worse yet when one feels the click and understands and the other doesn’t feel it or lets rules dictate?
Can well meaning people and societal pressures mess up a good thing or on the evil side sabotage it?
Are the rules governing these things/feelings meant to be broken?
Do we sometimes watch life happen to us while we stare in from the outside helplessly?
Can we change who we truly are or do we sometimes hide the truth from even ourselves that we don’t remember it anymore?
Are there certain places we’ve been before and it doesn’t make sense that we could have gone to these places in this lifetime?
So what is life and how should we live it?
What is the core?